Click here to send us your inquires or call (852) 36130518

Decatur County Online

Social Rants By Billy Delmar

“Only if you feel that she can understand your perspective”

Everyone has his or her secrets, and if you have a colorful past, you may be wondering if you should share some of yours with whatever woman you may be dating. Many times we like to think that it is always best to be honest, especially when it involves something that could potentially appear and shock her.

However, other times you may find yourself wondering if it is even worth telling her, especially if you do not know for sure if the two of you will become serious or not. What you decide to do depends on you, but we wanted to list some options that you may have when deciding whether or not you should tell her about your past.

Consider How You Met Her

“Did you meet online?”

If you met her on one of those dating site scams, you do not have to worry about telling her about your past. Chances are, she may not even be real. For all you know, you could be talking to a robot. When you are using sites like, you need to be careful of whom you are talking to and what you tell them. If they are real, they could use the information you gave them to do something illegal such as blackmailing you.

If you met her on a site that you think is legit, you may still want to take your time before you reveal too much of yourself about her. You definitely do not want to send her a message telling her that you spent time in jail right after you have just started chatting with her. That is one surefire way to send her running and never coming back. Instead, see how far the chatting goes before deciding whether or not she is the type of person that you want to admit your peppered past to.

When the Time Is Right

“Make sure to talk somewhere with people around”

If you have decided that you are ready to divulge in some of your back-story, make sure you do it in a public place. It would be even better if you decided to meet up at the place rather than one of you driving the both of you there. There are no dating site scams that will tell you this, but you want her to be able to make an easy escape if she feels uncomfortable with the information you have revealed to her.

If she does decide to leave after you have told her about your past, you should try your best not to take it personally. Your past is your past and there is nothing you can do about it. If she runs away, chances are she would not have been right for you in the first place. Try to take it all in stride and do not regret your decision to tell her if you felt it was the right thing to do. Women found on websites like are a dime a dozen, and you can definitely find more where she came from. Do not dwell or it will make dating more difficult for you, which is something that you definitely do not want.

How Much Should You Tell Her?

“Don’t reveal too much”

If you do decide to tell her about your past, you have the option of limiting how much you reveal to her. For example, if you were in jail for three years for robbery, you can tell her that you were send to jail for stealing something. You do not have to tell her that you robbed something or someone. Even if you do, you do not have to tell her the whole story in great detail.

If she asks you a bunch of question, you can come up with ways to answer her without telling her everything that you do not want her to know. You want to make sure that your answers are sincere. While you are not required to tell her anything, she is also not required to date you. Remember, that it is a two way street. She may want to get off if you are hogging the road.

You may even consider lying about your past. We do not fault you if you want to go that route, especially if you are not very serious about dating her. If you are going to lie, make sure you have your lie planned out thoroughly. Women love to catch men lying, so make it solid. Do not leave room for questioning. When you come up with your lie, make it concise and to the point so that she isn’t asking you a million questions afterward.

You can also try taking a page from one of those dating site scams and convince her that something happened that really didn’t. You can make up a reason for why you committed the crime and pretend like you were the one in the right and everyone else was in the wrong. Tug at her heartstrings with a sob story. If you are going to go in this direction, you have to seem sincere. Do not just make things up as you go; she will be able to spot your lie in a second. Commit to the act or do not bother doing it at all.

In other words, lie as much as you need to if you think it is going to give you the results you want. But remember that if you lie, you are going to have to keep up with it. When you get sloppy with your lies, she will be able to spot it and it will backfire on you.

Don’t Tell Her

Your final option is not to tell her at all. This is the option that a lot of guys use. If you are just meeting to have sex, there is no point in bothering to tell her about your past. If you plan to date her or start up a friends with benefits type of friendship up with her, you may have to be careful. Finding a woman interested in this kind of relationship could become a challenge. If you are looking for someone with a similar mindset then you may have to make some comparison between the sites. Read JustHookup Review: What’s the Verdict? Scam or No? Find Out! and find a result to your comparison. Whatever you choose, just make sure that you come clean with the woman about your wishes.

If you decide not to tell her and come closer to her, you are going to have to make sure that she is never able to find out any information about your past. This may be almost impossible with the powerful search engines that the Internet has to offer. Do not be surprised if she finds this information on your own, and if she does, you should already have a reason for why you never brought it up. Make sure that your reasoning is legit. If possible, you want to make sure that you can still keep whatever type of relationship you have going with her. If not, simply count your losses and move on. There are other women out there who will not give a damn about your colorful past.

Whatever you decide to do is up to you. You can do one of these things, or you can try to work it out where you do a combination of these things. No matter what you do, your main goal finding the willpower to commit to it, which can be a lot more difficult than it seems. Choose the best option that works for you and stick to it.

Sometimes it seems like there’s nothing more frightening than involving the families in a relationship that has just been the two of you so far. So much so that we often put it off. There’s only so many times you can redirect the conversation and a finite number of excuses to give before you risk putting her off, though and eventually it’s time to get it over with. When it comes down to it, is meeting her parents really that much worse than dooming yourself to reading through reviews of adult personals all over again? Even if that goes well, you will end up in the same place again just as leery and unprepared as before. So take it from us; it’s better to just suck it up and get it over with now. If you really like her, you’ll have to eventually, after all. In case, you want to continue with your search for great personals, Read Reviews Of The Best Personals Sites To Find Hot Ladies. These personals website reviews can give what you have been searching for.

Dress for the Occasion

“Suit up”

One thing that a lot of guys tend to forget when it comes to their first introduction to their girlfriend’s parents is to dress appropriately for the occasion. If her father insists on the nicest restaurant in Hamilton, you had best find a nice suit and tie. If her mother wants a family dinner, try not to make it any more formal than business casual. It’s not always a scenario of dressing to the nines. As with most things, the best thing you can do is know the environment you’re walking into, and the only way you’ll be able to do that is to talk with her about it. Make sure she knows not to spring this on you beforehand and try to show some interest if not in meeting her parents themselves at least in impressing them for the sake of dating her. Not only will this keep her happy, but it will most likely grant you better advice in the long run.

So figure out if they are more formal or casual people in general. What sort of people do they deal with on a daily basis? What sort of rules did they have when she was growing up and how did they relax over time? Does she have a good relationship with them? What subjects are considered taboo? Although most of this might seem to be applicable to other aspects of the night, these sorts of things can tell you what sort of appearance they’ll react best to. If they are more traditional, upstanding, or conservation, at least try to find a good pair of slacks and a shirt that buttons up. If they are more laid back individuals and do not seem to want their daughter stuck with someone stuffy, stick to more natural fabrics like cotton and wear a nice pair of jeans. If all else fails, try letting her dress you, since she’ll probably have the best eye for what her parents like.

Compliment Them on Something

“They will love it”

This should be one of the very first things you do. Introduce yourself and give a compliment. The key here is not to make it sound like empty flattery. Try to find something very specific to compliment them on. Ask your girl beforehand if there is anything either of them are really proud of or enjoy someone noticing. This works best if you meet them at their house, since it gives you time to see a lot when you first pull up. How kept their lawn is, how many cars are in the driveway. Do they have a garden? Is there a pet in the yard? If you recognize one of the cars, shake hands and ask about the model year and if they like it. If you recognize some sort of sporting equipment in the driveway ask who plays with a smile. Tell them how nice the yard looks and ask how they manage to keep it that way.

Of course, it gets a little trickier if you aren’t visiting the house, but there are still a few tricks to keep you from having to go back to reviews of adult personals by the end of the night. If you happen to meet at place one of the parents suggest, such as a favored restaurant or park, be sure to compliment the choice of venue. Instead of being broad about the location, pick something about it that really stands out. Is it energetic and upbeat, or perhaps relaxing or upscale? Ask how long they have been going there and what their favorite parts of it are. The best thing to do is stay as interested as possible and be willing to follow up the compliment with some sort of small talk that can show that interest. Encouraging them to talk is going to leave a better impression than trying to come up with stuff to tell them.

Stick with Neutral Subjects as Much as Possible

“Just act like a sane person and you’ll be fine”

One of the quickest ways to ruin a first impression is to give an unwanted opinion. That is why, as much as possible, try to leave politics and religion to the wayside. This is a lot easier said than done in most cases, and usually best augmented by asking your girlfriend their views on key subjects beforehand. Make sure you don’t go in blind or we can guarantee you will put your foot in your mouth at some point in the night. Everyone has things they would rather not talk about and it’s best to do what you can to know what those topics are before you get in too deep. If you keep getting directed to certain topics, such as your religion or your thoughts on an upcoming election, try to turn it around with a deflection to something you know is safe territory or simply say you would rather hear their opinion on the matter first. Saying the wrong thing here can be a one way ticket back to spending your nights reading reviews of adult personals again, but there is a lot you can do before you reach that moment.

Seriously Try to Relax

“You have got to relax, dude!”

All that having been said, take a deep breath and do what you have to in order to remain relaxed in their presence. Go to your favorite massage parlor in Hamilton, or listen to your favorite music beforehand. Remember, confidence and ease in their presence will always come off better than nervous tension. Even if some parents might find the latter amusing or endearing, you really shouldn’t expect or count on it before you meet them. The first meeting is as much for you as it is for them, so use this time to feel out their opinions and figure out where you rate in their eyes. That way you can adjust as needed for the next time you see them. A few good tricks to remember here is keeping your cell phone on hand but not necessarily out, and making sure to drink less than they are if there is alcohol involved. Sip a lot, but drink a little. That way you can stay in control of how you present yourself to them, and have an out if things really take a turn for the worse.

“You are with the right person – Marry her!”

Considering marriage is a scary thing, even if your 100% sure you are in love. There is so much that could go wrong. Every marriage horror story you have heard sneaks its way into your conscious to replay over and over like a bad movie. It’s quite normal to be worried, no matter how in love you are. There is always the possibility that the person you love isn’t who they purport themselves to be. There are even national television shows like, Who the %#@! Did I marry, that showcases true stories of marriages that have gone surprisingly wrong. Fortunately, there are five surefire signs that you are with the person you should marry.

Kindness and Respect are the Biggies

If she treats you with kindness and respect, you’re on the right track. Keep in mind, if you treat her in the same manner she will reciprocate. If not, she is the wrong girl. Treating a woman like a party girl initiates the game. She will assume you are after casual sex and treat you in that manner. However, if you show a serious interest and treat her as a gentleman would and she returns the interest by communicating with you as a kind and caring woman, she may be the right one. You will be able to tell if she is sincere in her actions or a femme fatale in disguise by the strength of her reserve. If she still treats you like the love of her life when her girlfriends come calling, you may have the right one.

Look No Farther Than Social sex

“Is she comfortable to get close to you in Public?”

This sign may come as a big surprise to many people, and they would not think a casual dating relationship could be a key sign but it’s true. Social sex is a tricky situation. It holds a lot of different connotations for different people. It’s a turn on for some women and for others it may be scary or embarrassing. (visit this link to learn more: Finding out exactly what it means to your significant other can be useful. It can be a touchy subject so tread carefully. The idea and act of social sex can be used to determine if you are with the woman you should marry. If she has engaged in this type of activity before but refuses to consider it with you, find out why. Social sex can be fun and exciting, but if she has had a bad previous experience she could have a fear of repeating it that has nothing to do with you.

Trust and Loyalty

“Consider the things that really matter”

Trust and loyalty are important to anyone who is considering marriage. There should be no doubt in your mind that you can trust her. Her loyalty should be obvious and unquestionable. You should be completely at ease when not in her presence. There should be no troubled feeling that she may be doing something she isn’t supposed to when you aren’t near her. If you don’t feel that total comfort, she may not be the one for you. At east she may not be the one for you right now. If these issues are not set in stone before you pop the big question, it can cause big problems later.

Girls who are Married but Looking are Not What You’re Looking For

If you find a girl who is married but looking to get out, you’re barking up the wrong tree. If she is cheating on her husband, she will cheat on you, no matter how awesome you are. Read The Facts about this. She may tell you that you are the one and you might feel a deep connection with her but cheating is never a good sign. If you are married but looking as well, that’s another story. You may both be in abusive relationships or perhaps just bad marriage and be perfect for each other. Make sure to discuss this topic fully before making any decisions. If either of you are married but looking, it’s time to reevaluate the relationship. This of this sign as your red flag. If the red flag goes up, this is clearly not the person you should marry.

There is no doubt about it, when marriage comes into play in a relationship, things get complicated. If your significant other has most of these qualities (or in once case lack thereof), you have a good chance at a successful relationship. Relationships take work, however, and that goes for even the most romantic of couples. Successful couples are successful because they work hard to be! If the signs are there, and this is the person you should marry, the relationship is well worth the effort.

Facebook and Twitter are highly sociable websites. Everyone on these two social sites is there to have light moments and small talk with friends. You cannot shove your way thereto get noticed. As such you need to have strategic ways to attract people to your timeline.

A while ago Facebook and twitter were left for the 16-year-old kids. However, lately the social media have become the source of insurmountable business contacts, networking, increased sales and most importantly varied kinds of information. This is clear by the number of unlimited multinational companies and business presence on the social sites. This calls for creative ways to attract and keep the community on your timeline. There are 3 ways which you can use to generate leads on these social sites.

Always Post Creative, Informative and Educative Content

The best way to get attention of your targeted group of people on social site is through content which stand out. As much as people go to the social sites for fun, Information attracts them as well. Your wall posts and tweets should be carefully crafted. The aim is to create a subject which will call for attention as well as generate conversation.

Social Media Marketing: Generating Business Leads

Social Media Marketing: Generating Business Leads

This can be difficult in twitter since your must convey your message in 140 characters only. The way out here is to create conversation with the intended community. Build your message gradually as the conversation moves on. Introduce the content while at the same time maintaining the conversation that you began. This way you will send the message across and attract new followers and friends to your timeline.

Maintain a Vibrant, Contemporary Timeline Outlook

Social sites users are attracted by what they see than what they read. Someone will click on your Facebook page or Twitter simply to check out your profile and background pictures. Therefore, you should choose carefully the kind of photos that you upload on the timeline. The best way to catch new friends attention and is through uploading photos which describe current events.

10 Ways of Generating Leads Part 1

10 Ways of Generating Leads Part 1

For instance during the public days such as the mother’s day, go out of your way and change your profile or photo cover into something which celebrate the mothers. This can take the form of words or just a descriptive picture. This not only appeals to your current friends and followers but also attract new ones.

Create a Stampede Often To Remain Relevant

Attracting new friends in social site is the easiest part. However, maintaining these new members is the challenging task. It is important for you to create a content that will attract attention of users. Be ready to receive positive as well as negative comments Proceed to respond to the positive comments and keep the negative ones in the conversation.

The stampede can be created through issuing a personal and subjective view on an ongoing issue in town. This can focus on politics, new music videos and religion and other aspects. This not only generates leads to your social account but you will be able to redirect the energy of users to intend business or personal websites.

These creative methods are a sure way to catch a big chuck of the over 1 billion Facebook users and a million Twitter users. This large number of followers translates to invaluable benefits.

Currently, a number of people are disturbed by the confusion that is caused by the performance of their credit scores. A a substantial number of people worldwide have been blacklisted as the guys with bad credit record than any other time before. However, research has shown that failure to repay a credit may be as result of circumstances beyond human control rather than mismanagement of money. In some instances, the victims either underwent events of sudden loss of employment or drastic reduction of income. Definitely that will affect their credit score but does that really mean a lot? Let’s find out and see why the credit score may not matter.

Quick loss of relevancy

The fact that primary data which is subject to change any time is the main parameter used to determine credit score for an individual is an indication that the score may not remain constant for a given period of time. These data keep on changing on a daily basis therefore even if the lender is using the same method to determine credit score as the one that is used to derive the consumer’s credit score it will not have a significant effect.

What's the Minimum Score for a Home Loan?

What’s the Minimum Score for a Home Loan?

Existence of Fundamental Guidelines

There are some conventional guidelines that have been drafted to propel credit facility. It is a requirement that you avoiding opening new bank accounts while still in debt and settle payments in time as well as maintaining reasonably low debt. These guidelines will help you to be financially disciplined whether or not you have a better credit score. In addition, you will also be able to improve your credit score if you follow these guidelines as they are.

Accurate credit bureau information

Your credit worthiness can be easily determined by your lender if the information provided about your credit score is accurate and reliable. It may not matter the level of your credit score, instead, your lender can just determine whether you are trustworthy from the information they see about you.

How to Improve Your Credit Score in 5 Simple Steps

How to Improve Your Credit Score in 5 Simple Steps

Difference in requirements and criteria by lenders

Most probably, each lender may have a different lending requirement and criteria from the rest. In addition these requirements keep on changing from time to time. Therefore you can find a lender with guidelines that can accommodate you with your credit score while others may not. Furthermore, there is nowhere that consumers will always have a credit cutoff that is constant.

Custom and behavioral scores

During the determination of customer credit worthiness, lenders not only use credit score but also custom and behavioral scores in respect to the customer in question. These scores are completely independent from your credit score and the performance of your credit score does not matter in any way.

In conclusion, it is worth noting that the existence of credit scores in the management of credit facilities has greatly contributed towards making consumers financially empowered and discipline. It makes consumers more responsible and financially conscious at all times. One cannot just go around misusing credit meant for escalating the scope and operation of a business because a loan needs to be paid in time.

Eating disorders are very popular among teenage girls and women in their college years. It’s also become more popular among boys. These disorders should never be taken lightly. It can lead to severe healthy conditions and even reach the point of threatening one’s life. How do you know what you or someone that you know may have an eating disorder? Here are 5 signs to tell:

  1. From fit to baggy clothes

You’ll see your fashion style change from wearing fit to baggy clothes. When you get too skinny, your clothes will be too big for your body. Also, because you’re already too conscious with the changes in your body, you’ll prefer to wear baggy than tight clothes. You may even start borrowing clothes from other family members.

  1. Eating secretly

A person who has an eating disorder doesn’t eat the entire day. He or she prefers to eat late at night when no one else is watching. If you’ve been doing this, then you should be alarmed. Also, if you suspect that someone you know is bulimic, check the fridge before you sleep and re-check it in the morning to see if lots of foods are already missing.

You may have an eating disorder if you think of a hotdog as an appetizer.

You may have an eating disorder if you think of a hotdog as an appetizer.

  1. Irregular eating schedule

Someone who has an eating disorder has an irregular eating schedule. It’s so different from everyone else’s schedule. If you find yourself not eating at the usual times, you may have an eating disorder. If someone you know eats ahead of everyone or prefers to eat an hour after everybody finishes their meal, you have to know why.

  1. Lack of energy

People with eating disorders are too tired to do pretty much everything. They only become energetic when it’s time to hit the gym. It seems that the gym is the only thing that can energize them. Again, it’s because of their desire to lose more weight. Feel the same way? You may have an eating disorder too.

About Eating Disorders

About Eating Disorders

  1. Love to criticize others

Do you love to criticize others for the food they’re eating? It’s a sign that you have an eating disorder. Someone with an eating disorder is too conscious with the food they eat, and they can’t help but criticize others who eat too much and those who eat unhealthy food.

These 5 signs don’t necessarily point out that you or someone you know has an eating disorder. Then again, you should never ignore these signs. They may mean that you or someone else has an eating disorder. It’s important to seek help right away. You just can’t ignore the condition. Remember that you can always lose weight and have a great figure without starving yourself, binging and throwing up, or taking laxatives. These disorders can be dangerous. Instead of having a healthy body, you might just put your life into jeopardy.


The tight economy is taking a toll on every aspect of your life, but it doesn’t have to stop you from having a romantic evening out or a fun afternoon with someone you love! Try these five date ideas, guaranteed to be fun, without costing an arm and a leg!

Take advantage of city events!

Whether you live in a small town or a big city, almost every town wants to get their citizens involved! Many host community movie nights, monthly festivals or fun events! Family movie nights are usually held in parks, so make sure you bring your folding chairs and bug spray! Many cities host historical re-enactments, concerts in the park, marathons and festivals every month. For information try checking out your cities website or stopping by city hall.

Take a tour together!

Are you wine aficionados? Micro brew fanatics? Many breweries and vineyards offer tours of the grounds. Not only do you get to learn about something you love, but many tours involve samples. If beer and wine isn’t your thing try local farms, factories or historical sites. No matter where you are there are undiscovered things all around you, you just have to look!

Dating on a Dime: Creative Date Ideas

Dating on a Dime: Creative Date Ideas

Cook that romantic dinner yourselves!

There’s no easier to way to save on dinner out than to eat dinner in! Pick a recipe or theme together and go for it! Novice cooks? Food Network is a great resource for everything from information on where food comes from, to why it does what it does, to how to cook your favorite meals. More seasoned cooks can find inspiration on sites like Pinterest. Working together is a great way to spend time together and learn more about each other.

Take a class together!

Many libraries and stores offer free classes. Places like William & Sonoma, Pottery Barn and Michaels often offer free classes on weekends on everything from bread baking to scrap booking. Can’t find something to interest your man? Try the library or local college. The key is to find a class that will interest both of you. Classes that start off with instruction and then give you time to work with each other are great, because they give you time to talk. Not all art classes are ‘girly’ either! Glass blowing or painting pottery can be interesting to everyone!

Dating on a Dime: Anniversary on a Budget

Dating on a Dime: Anniversary on a Budget

Use Coupon Sites!

Coupon sites like and have sprung up in the past few years and they can be goldmines for fun activities! With these services you purchase coupons at heavily discounted rates, often up to 75% off, that can be redeemed for restaurant gift cards or fun activities like concerts and admission to local attractions. There are both national websites and local websites, and all require you to sign up using your email address. Not only do these websites offer local deals, many also offer traveling deals, such as nights in hotels or at resorts!

A fun date doesn’t have to be expensive. In fact, dates that cost less and are focused more on getting to know one another and enjoying each other’s company can often work out better for everyone involved! Next time you’re short of funds but still looking for some excitement, try tapping into what your city has to offer you!

Tomtop| Online shop| Online Einkaufen

QR code scanner| inventory management system| labelling| Kiosk| warehouse management|

banner| Backdrop| Bannershop| Ebanner| Eprint| foamboard| hk print| hong kong printing| Printing| Digital Printing|| backdrop| print100

DecorCollection European design furniture| sofa hk| sofas| beds| coffee tables| dining tables| dining chairs| sideboards| furniture hk| Cattelan Italia| Koinor

Addmotor Electric Bike| Electric bike shop / electric bicycle shop Electric bike review| Electric trike| Fat tire electric bike| Best electric bike| Electric bicycle/E bike| Electric bikes for sale| Folding electric bike| Electric mountain bike| Electric tricycle Mid drive electric bike| Juiced Bikes Pedego Rad-Power

地產代理/物業投資| 租辦公室/租寫字樓| 地產新聞| 甲級寫字樓/頂手| Grade A Office| Commercial Building / Office building| Hong Kong Office Rental| Rent Office| Office for lease / office leasing| Office for sale| Office relocation

Hong Kong Grade A Office Rental

Jardine House| Admiralty Centre| One Island East| One Kowloon| The Center| World Wide House| United Centre| Exchange Square| Ocean Centre| Lippo Centre

Wycombe Abbey| private school hong kong| English primary school Hong Kong| Wycombe Abbey School International schools hong kong|

edm| Mailchimp| Hubspot| Sendinblue| ActiveCampaign| SMS| 邮件营销| 電郵推廣| 邮件群发软件| Email Marketing| 搜尋引擎優化 SEO